Questions like, In the uncertainty stage, when a woman doesn't understand where a man is coming from, she may panic.
She may wonder why he is no longer coming on strong like in the attraction stage.
I use a recurring metaphor in my relationship advice: that communication issues arise between men and women because they don’t understand each other’s languages—almost as if they are from different planets. If a woman says that her dish is, for example, too salty, she will think nothing of talking negatively about the food, or even extend the conversation about why the kitchen staff is not more careful in their use of spices.
Since a first date is where a woman and a man first attempt to learn each other’s lingo, it’s also where many relationships go off-kilter, where the first misunderstandings and misperceptions are formed. If it were two women sharing an evening out, complaining about the food or service is perfectly fine, because talking about problems is a bonding experience on Venus.
The energy that went into looking for the right person can now go into creating a mutually loving and romantic relationship.This is the exact point where a woman has to completely resist the urge to pursue him.She has to give him the space to pull away so that he will become even more interested in her.Now if on the other hand, a woman says, “Wow this place is a real find!I love the way they do their chicken….” In a man’s mind, he’s scored major points.with over 15-million copies sold worldwide and translated into over 90 languages. Let’s set our imaginary date at a nice restaurant that the guy has chosen for the first official date.