I write because I don’t have resources within the Muslim community and would love that perspective.I am not a Muslim woman though I have much respect for the faith.That means no hugging, no kissing, no holding hands, etc.Is it me, or does that defeat the purpose of an intimate relationship? The guy revealed his secrets with me gradually after nikkah that he occasionally consumes alcohol and smokes weed.because he considers himself very liberal and thinks that Allah is not so cruel and won't punish him for these things as Allah is rehman and rahim.We have been talking for several weeks now and the subject of having a relationship finally came up yesterday.
I fear mostly for any children we may have, because they would be confused as to what is the truth and what they should do.
In the end, he gave up and it has been almost two months now.
He doesn’t pray Friday prayer, but he fasts the month of Ramadan.
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He listens to music a lot and goes to raves occasionally.
He doesn’t go to the mosque and he’s never read the entire Qur’an.